When I look back over my life there are so many things I see now that I didn’t then. The way I acted when I first went to boarding school. I missed my mum terribly but I expected way too much of people. In some ways I was really lucky that the school closed down as I had learned from my mistakes and when I started at my new school I made friends much more easily and had a wonderful time there. Partying too much and not studying enough. Failing uni when I met J. I didn’t realise, or want…

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Reflection

Reflection

Today is my youngest son’s birthday. He is two years old. So much has happened in the time since he was born I … View Post
Trust

Trust

I am a single mum. Most of you know that. The ex (who shall now be known as Twatface or the sperm donor) called … View Post
Hello World!

Hello World!

Welcome to softthistle.net, my new domain, both in name and nature. This site will be a work in progress as I go along, … View Post